About Lori Todd

Dr. Lori Todd is a visionary scientist, transformational coach and trainer, and an artist. She is currently an Industrial Hygiene Consultant and an International Transformational Trainer and Coach. She is a Director of Trainings at WorldLegacy in North Carolina. WorldLegacy offers personal effectiveness and leadership workshops and sponsors large-scale community service projects in the community. Lori leads trainings across the United States, Mexico and Kazakhstan. She has personally trained over 10,000 people, coaching them to develop their unique leadership and communication talents. Lori has developed many unique workshops and coaching tools for coaching corporate executives, high quality trainers and transformational coaches. In her work, Lori challenges people to risk and give like it is their last day and grow like they have forever.

Lori Todd Talks about Cats, Death, Grief and Baby Food

Five months ago I lost my cat of 19 years, died I mean.  DEAD.  Cancer, lots of IV fluids, chemo that did nothing.  Lots of money.  The magical part of it is that she waited until I came home from a Mexico trip so I could say goodbye.  I said goodbye to Kasha.  She looked so weak, I then said it is time to let go.  Ten minutes later she was dead.  I am not good with death.  Not a great conversation about it.  The WorldLegacy transformational trainings I have done have helped and it is a regular battle with being neutral about it.  After she died I was shocked, never saw it directly before.  I always had someone else deal with the dying part.  I wondered if she was really dead.  I touched her she was warm.  I didn’t want to box her up in case she was in a coma.  My friend “E”  said to put her body near the food just in case she wakes up.  Ha Ha.  Finally we boxed her up for the later burial.  She was cold by then.  And getting stiff.  I guess I had to let go of hope.  Damn.When I think of her I feel sad, and also guilty that I haven’t thought of her for a few days.  I can’t win.  Either filled with grief or a space of peace is tainted by a vague fear I could be not minding her enough in my heart.  The price of love is grief.  The price of unconditional commitment is grief.

So now the next cat is dying.  I hate when I buy turkey baby food because it means there is a cat in the house who needs to be tempted with food to eat.  And now I once again are giving sub Q fluids and look for any sign that shows me she will be around a bit longer.  I can send her energy and the hope that somehow my intention can shrink those tumors.  I can summon a lot of intention.  Maybe it will work this time.  She did go outside for awhile today.

So all the transformational work I have done at WorldLegacy has let me hear the BAD news and then hear my VET say, “Your cat is as old as dirt”  and not come through the phone and kill her.  I did write an angry email to her.  I need to force feed the cat some food.  Whatever it takes to have her be with me longer.  The price of hope is quite high.

Dr. Lori Todd

2019-10-16T00:03:11-04:00

The Conversation – Dr. Lori Todd

 conversation Dr. Lori Todd

What is important in any moment, is only what we choose is important in that moment. It takes a phone call, a medical report, an animal walking by your window, to change everything in an instant. The world can go from black and white to color in an instant. The world can go from possibility to resignation in an instant. All that is left is our interpretation, and our inner reserve to choose the one that will forward our lives.

The Conversation

One moment you are worrying about those extra wrinkles
Next moment you find out you have cancer
One moment you don’t have enough time for everything
Next moment you can’t move because of the surreal nature of life
You look in the mirror and wonder what really matters
And the answer is the same; nothing really matters
Then you have an insanely funny conversation with someone
You realize for a moment you forgot that you had problems
Life is moving in slow motion; you wonder if joy will return
Then you realize joy is just a pause button from pain
The Conversation –

By Dr. Lori Todd

2019-10-16T00:03:57-04:00

Mastery Takes Practice

Mastery Takes Practice: Pablo Casals Mastery takes Practice.  When people ask me, “How long will it take for me to be transformed? Transformation is like any other discipline. Practice, practice and more practice.  How many hours does it take to make it to the Olympics? How many hours does it take to master any discipline and keep it alive? Transformation is not a destination, it is a Journey. And the Journey ends (as far as we know it) when our lives end.  Mastery takes practice, whether it is transformation, music, meditation, sports or enlightenment.  In an interview, the legendary cellist and humanitarian Pablo Casals was asked, “Why, at age 93, do you still practice three hours a day?”  The Maestro said, “I’m beginning to show some improvement. Of course, I continue to play and practice. I think I would do so if I lived for another hundred years.”

“I am a very simple man. I am a man first, an artist second. My first obligation is to the welfare of my fellow man. I will endeavour to meet this obligation through music, since it transcends language, politics and national boundaries.”

Pablo Casals practiced every day until the day he died in 1973 at the age of 96 even though he is regarded as the pre-eminent cellist of the first half of the 20th century, and one of the greatest cellists of all time. He made many recordings throughout his career, of solo, chamber, and orchestral music, also as conductor.

At the age of four he could play the violin, piano and flute; at the age of six he played the violin well enough to perform a solo in public. His first encounter with a cello-like instrument was from witnessing a local traveling Catalan musician, who played a cello-strung broom handle. In 1899, Casals played at The Crystal Palace in London, and later for Queen Victoria at Osborne House, her summer residence.

In 1901–1902 he made his first tour of the United States; and in 1903 toured South America. On January 15, 1904, Casals was invited to play at the White House for President Theodore Roosevelt. On March 9, of that year he made his debut at Carnegie Hall in New York.

“From the beginning of my life, I lived in music. My father was a real musician, but he didn’t have a real musical education. But even so, he played piano beautifully, and his compositions have grace and meaning.”

My father was a very modest man, and he thought that a man couldn’t make a living being a musician. He spoke to a friend who offered me a job as an apprentice carpenter. My mother opposed. She saw in me the gift of music, and she insisted that I become a musician.”

Jascha Heifetz is widely considered to be one of the finest violinists of modern times.  Rumor is that a pedestrian on Fifty-seventh Street, Manhattan, stopped Jascha Heifetz and inquired, “Could you tell me how to get to Carnegie Hall?” “Yes,” said Heifetz. “Practice!”

Buddha

A young man went to Gautama Buddha and sought the Master’s guidance to achieve Enlightenment, The conversation went as follows:

Young Man: Master how long will it take for me to achieve enlightenment?
Buddha: It all depends on you.
Young Man: If I put in ten hours of mediation every day how long will it take?
Buddha:  Maybe ten years.
Young Man: What if I put in fifteen hours meditation?
Buddha: Maybe fifteen years
Young Man:  What if I meditate for twenty hours?
Buddha: Maybe twenty five years
Young Man: I cannot understand your logic—the more effort I put in, the more time it will take—this is ridiculous, Please explain.
Buddha: As long as you are fixated and obsessed about your goal you will not achieve it. Just do spiritual practice without one eye on the goal.  Mastery Takes Practice Dr. Lori Todd

2019-10-16T00:04:41-04:00
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